I recently had an experience where someone I trusted told me the following statement: It will always be this way and will never completely go away. I had went to this person with a problem I had, looking for a solution. When I was told this, something rose up within me in my spirit and said, "No it won't." I didn't blurt the comment out loud, but kept it to myself. I had went to the Lord in prayer beforehand, and I thought this person would help me with my problem. Later, the Lord revealed to me how to solve the problem.
Sometimes the work that God wants to do in our lives is very painful, and at the time, seems like an attack from the devil himself. However, God brings painful situations in our lives to bring a unique depth to our relationship with Him that will come no other way. What can happen in those moments of pain is a fear that something painful will continually happen in the future. Rather than expecting good or bad to happen, we must know what God says about a situation or problem. There are times when you will be sick, but you will not always be sick. There are times when you will grieve, but you will not always grieve. There are times when you will have questions, but there will be times you have answers. There are times when some situations and problems will always be there, but there are times when there is another solution.
There are times when we are disappointed, things are left undone, dreams fall apart, and the worst case scenario happens. But there are also times we are told it will always be this way, this will never change, there is nothing else we can do, or you will just maintain this state, and for the situation that statement made is FALSE. It is imperative that as Christians, we are led by His Spirit, that we have that continual personal relationship with Him every single day. We MUST be led by Him and allow Him to have complete control over everything we are, especially our thoughts, feelings, and emotions. We MUST be ready to hear Him speak at all times, especially when someone we trust tries to speak into our situation or struggle with a lie. While the person may mean well or have good intentions or just believe differently, their voice is not the one that matters. The one that matters is the voice of God.